Journal

The SPARK Journal

Field notes on real-world connection — meeting people, making friends and building circles in Bangkok, Singapore and New Zealand.

Why Experiences Beat Swiping

Relationships

Why Experiences Beat Swiping

Why a shared table, trail or supper club outperforms the swipe — and what to do about it.

September 14, 2026

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Where Founders Meet in Singapore

Networking

Where Founders Meet in Singapore

A founder's map of Singapore's real rooms — and how to choose the two or three that will actually compound.

September 7, 2026

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Why We Built SPARK: The Future Isn't Dating. It's Social Discovery.

Lifestyle

Why We Built SPARK: The Future Isn't Dating. It's Social Discovery.

The founder's story of SPARK and why the future isn't matching people online, but meeting them in real life.

August 31, 2026

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Making Friends After Moving to New Zealand: The Honest Guide

Friendships

Making Friends After Moving to New Zealand: The Honest Guide

Why Kiwi friendliness isn't the same as openness, and how newcomers turn warm small talk into real friendship.

August 31, 2026

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How to Meet New People in Singapore: A Practical Guide to Building Real Connection

Singapore

How to Meet New People in Singapore: A Practical Guide to Building Real Connection

A founder's practical guide to the mindset, habits and systems that turn strangers into friends in Singapore.

August 24, 2026

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How to Meet People in Auckland: A Practical Guide to Building Real Connection

New Zealand

How to Meet People in Auckland: A Practical Guide to Building Real Connection

Auckland is warm but booked solid. Here is how to turn a friendly city into a genuine social circle.

August 24, 2026

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The Best Places to Meet New People in Singapore

Singapore

The Best Places to Meet New People in Singapore

A map of the rooms, tracks and tables where Singapore's real communities gather — and why returning matters most.

August 24, 2026

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Making Friends in Singapore: How to Build a Real Social Circle

Friendships

Making Friends in Singapore: How to Build a Real Social Circle

A structural diagnosis of Singapore's friendship problem, and a working method for building a circle that lasts.

August 17, 2026

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Best Date Ideas in Bangkok: From First Dates to Nights You'll Never Forget

Relationships

Best Date Ideas in Bangkok: From First Dates to Nights You'll Never Forget

Why Bangkok is one of the world's great dating cities, and how to plan dates people actually remember.

August 17, 2026

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Best Networking Events in Singapore: Where Relationships Actually Begin

Networking

Best Networking Events in Singapore: Where Relationships Actually Begin

Why most networking events fail, which formats compound, and where Singapore's real relationships begin.

August 10, 2026

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Making Friends in Bangkok as an Expat

Friendships

Making Friends in Bangkok as an Expat

Why Bangkok fills your calendar but not your life — and how expats build friendships that actually last.

August 10, 2026

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Match Is Easy. Meeting Is Hard.

Relationships

Match Is Easy. Meeting Is Hard.

Why the gap between matching and meeting is the industry's real failure — and how SPARK was built to close it.

August 3, 2026

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How to Meet New People in Bangkok

Bangkok

How to Meet New People in Bangkok

A practical, local playbook for building real connections in a city of eleven million.

August 3, 2026

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Why Founders Need Real-World Networks

Networking

Why Founders Need Real-World Networks

Why the relationships that make or break a company still form in person, and how to build them deliberately.

July 26, 2026

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Things to Do in Singapore This Weekend

Singapore

Things to Do in Singapore This Weekend

Five kinds of Singapore weekend — and why the best plans are the ones that repeat, with people, on purpose.

July 24, 2026

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Best Rooftop Bars in Bangkok for Meeting People

Bangkok

Best Rooftop Bars in Bangkok for Meeting People

Bangkok's famous rooftops, judged by sociability — where the skyline actually helps you meet people.

July 22, 2026

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Best Things to Do in Bangkok Tonight: A Night for Every Mood

Bangkok

Best Things to Do in Bangkok Tonight: A Night for Every Mood

A founder's guide to Bangkok after dark — six kinds of night, and why every one of them is better shared.

July 20, 2026

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Why Identity Verification Matters: Trust Is Infrastructure

Lifestyle

Why Identity Verification Matters: Trust Is Infrastructure

Trust is infrastructure. A founder's essay on what anonymity cost us and how verification changes the room.

July 16, 2026

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Best Date Ideas in Auckland: Where the City Does Half the Work

New Zealand

Best Date Ideas in Auckland: Where the City Does Half the Work

Why Auckland is a gift to daters, and how to use its harbours, hills and long spring evenings well.

July 13, 2026

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Best Date Ideas in Singapore: A City Built for Second Dates

Relationships

Best Date Ideas in Singapore: A City Built for Second Dates

Why Singapore is a better dating city than its reputation suggests, and how to plan dates people remember.

July 9, 2026

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Why Most Networking Events Fail

Networking

Why Most Networking Events Fail

The structural reasons networking events disappoint — and the anatomy of a room that actually works.

July 6, 2026

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Best Networking Events in Auckland: Where Professionals Actually Connect

Networking

Best Networking Events in Auckland: Where Professionals Actually Connect

A founder's map of Auckland's networking scene — and how to turn a small city into a serious advantage.

July 2, 2026

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Best Networking Events in Bangkok: Where Relationships Outlast the Rooftop

Networking

Best Networking Events in Bangkok: Where Relationships Outlast the Rooftop

The Bangkok rooms worth your evenings, the formats that compound, and why small tables beat big rooftops.

June 29, 2026

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